Just got out of an abusive relationship that took a drain on my self-esteem. Kindness appreciated!
Recently separated from my fiancé after months of verbal abuse and being put down constantly. Felt that I was killing myself trying to keep the relationship going.(She has BPD and it’s very difficult) So, part of me feels liberated, while another part still hurts and feels lost. Found out recently she was cheating on me, so I definitely dodged a bullet. But, it’s hard when you love someone and they make you feel insignificant when they’re supposed to be your significant other. Sometimes all it takes is a kind word to make someone’s day better. Hope you’re all doing well yourselves!
Recently separated from my fiancé after months of verbal abuse and being put down constantly. Felt that I was killing myself trying to keep the relationship going.(She has BPD and it’s very difficult) So, part of me feels liberated, while another part still hurts and feels lost. Found out recently she was cheating on me, so I definitely dodged a bullet. But, it’s hard when you love someone and they make you feel insignificant when they’re supposed to be your significant other. Sometimes all it takes is a kind word to make someone’s day better. Hope you’re all doing well yourselves!